tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11303814818031192024-03-21T14:07:03.171-07:00硬男人武明智http://www.blogger.com/profile/16484979782263814429noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1130381481803119.post-62742133007970804732012-03-15T19:10:00.001-07:002012-03-15T19:11:56.845-07:00愛情的啟蒙經驗分享對異性開始產生「好感」,會否就是對「愛情」的啟蒙﹖<br />記得第一個使我有「好感」的女孩子,是在小學五六年級。<br />那是一位轉校插班的女同學,叫「少筠」。<br />與我一起讀書的同班女同學,如果有感覺的話,早就有了。<br />就是在平淡的學習生活裡,突然冒出來的「外來份子」,才會帶給人有新鮮感。<br /><br />一日,被男同學問:「你鍾唔鍾意少筠﹖」<br />那刻我開始思考「鍾意」和「女孩子」的深層意思。<br />我沒有否認,我係有點鍾意少筠。<br />誰不知,幾個男同學不約而同,都「鍾意」少筠,原來兒時口味頗接近。<br />我們這些青澀「香蕉仔」,只懂「鍾意」或「唔鍾意」,大家只是想親近她,希望她注意自己,就會樂上半天,別弄錯,不是「暗戀」那回事。<br />小學畢業,大家都升到不同的中學去,再不復見,就此結束與少筠的友情。<br /><br />由於有過這種對女孩子的微妙感覺經驗,就想在中學裡尋找這相同感覺。所以當年我選中學一定要男女校。<br /><br />中一開學時就已經十分積極地尋找,找呀找,找呀找,卒之遇到班上一位「四眼妹」能令我產生「鍾意」的感覺。「四眼妹」其實不是標緻美少女,只是戴上眼鏡有點秀氣,純純品品的乖女孩。<br /><br />奇怪的是,當我鍾意「四眼妹」的事給別人知道後,幾個跟我要好的男同學,也坦承他們或多或少都鍾意「四眼妹」。幾條香蕉仔,仍未成熟到想要跟「四眼妹」約會,大家只喜歡在她面前「掩掩映映」,或找機會跟她搭訕,希望博得四眼妹一笑或注意。<br /><br />直至其中一個年紀較我年長兩三歲,叫「青蛙」的男同學。一天,他向我們宣佈:他與「四眼妹」一起去看戲。我們聽後都不發一言,其他人我不知道,我只知自己有點失落。然後我開始思考約會,會做些甚麼﹖<br /><br />不久,「青蛙」又向我們宣佈:「四眼妹」成了他的女朋友。<br />我看著青蛙,又看看遠處正跟其他女同學談話的「四眼妹」,很難想像兩人可以有「這樣」的關係。為什麼我只只可以遠觀「四眼妹」,在她身旁團團轉裝小丑,從無想過可以有「進一步」行動﹖更何況,一個其貌不揚的青蛙,竟成為我鍾意的四眼妹的「男朋友」﹖<br /><br />原來世界果真充滿希望!!武明智http://www.blogger.com/profile/16484979782263814429noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1130381481803119.post-75277539416877715582012-03-13T01:30:00.001-07:002012-03-13T01:30:33.046-07:00重遇<div><span >在巴士上,竟碰見前度男友。</span></div><div><span >他看到我,我也看到了他。</span></div><div><span >他先呆了一下,猶豫著要不要行來跟我打招呼。</span></div><div><span >當他見到只我一個人,他已有了決定。</span></div><div><span >他靠到我座位來,跟我打招呼。</span></div><div><span >可能男人要裝大方,免得給我這舊女友留下反面不識人的爛印象。</span></div><div><span >只是就算他真要裝作不識人,爛印象仍是爛印象,爛多一點吧了。</span></div><div><span >男人,就是喜歡要「面子」。</span></div><div><span ><br /></span></div><div><span >舊男友坐在鄰行座位上,總算他識趣,沒有硬要坐在我的座位旁。</span></div><div><span >原來他也對我有戒心,社交距離維持在兩呎開外,是不是他感應到我不友善的氣呢﹖</span></div><div><span >「真巧!想不到在這裡遇到你。」</span></div><div><span >我沒有理睬他。</span></div><div><span >「去那裡﹖回家嗎﹖」</span></div><div><span >這可是回我家的路啊!你還明知故問﹖</span></div><div><span >「不是,約了朋友。」若再不理睬他,反倒顯得我小器了,但我不想跟他說實話,還是騙騙他好了。</span></div><div><span >「哦!... 近來好嘛﹖」</span></div><div><span >他仍不走啊!!是不是來搭訕了,總得乾說幾句才好離開呢﹖真煩人!!</span></div><div><span >「不壞,沒有你死不了,見到你則難說。」我要他知難而退。</span></div><div><span >他苦笑著,尷尬得很。</span></div><div><span >「我沒那麼惹你討厭吧﹖總算曾經一起過,再見也可以是朋友吧﹖」</span></div><div><span >虧他還有臉說這些話,當初是你跟我分手,一大堆理由說離開是為我好。其實只是為你好,從此自由自在,可以明正言順找其他女孩子。</span></div><div><span >「我朋友多得很,少你一個也不打緊。」</span></div><div><span >「不用這麼說吧!」他似乎惱了。</span></div><div><span >「我是這樣的了,又不是我叫你行過來,是你自己走過來要跟我說話。」我也開始不客氣了:「你還要說甚麼﹖說完了嗎﹖」</span></div><div><span >「我知道我那時的決定是對的。」他說完這句話,起身走到車頭的座位去。</span></div><div><span >「呸!」</span></div><div><span >我心中氣極,眼眶載滿了淚水,終忍不住流了下來。</span></div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; "><br /></div>武明智http://www.blogger.com/profile/16484979782263814429noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1130381481803119.post-25830228226581686542012-03-06T22:35:00.000-08:002012-03-06T22:36:12.580-08:00最後的願望<div><span >他站在她住的那棟大廈入口處,一臉迷惘。</span></div><div><span >快12時了,應該回家了吧﹖</span></div><div><span >會不會有人送她回家﹖</span></div><div><span >如果見到她時,有男人伴著,如何是好﹖</span></div><div><span >「是你的男友嗎?」若這樣唐突的問,會不會惹她嬲怒﹖</span></div><div><span >他忽然緊張起來。</span></div><div><span ><br /></span></div><div><span >看到她了。</span></div><div><span >果然有一個男人陪著。</span></div><div><span >要不要跳出來,把事情說清楚﹖</span></div><div><span >還是只是他的垂死掙扎,根本無商量餘地。</span></div><div><span >她的心已經變了。</span></div><div><span >她已經跑了跟別人在一起。</span></div><div><span >他的身份已經不再是「她的男朋友」。</span></div><div><span >想到這裡,心裡一陣悲痛:為什麼會變成這樣﹖</span></div><div><span >是他對她不好嗎﹖</span></div><div><span >肯定不是! </span></div><div><span >是她有一個比他條件更好的男人,所以選了他﹖</span></div><div><span ><br /></span></div><div><span >她與男人快進入大廈了,再不跳出來,就會錯失機會,白白浪費等候整個晚上的心血。</span></div><div><span ><br /></span></div><div><span >他決定跳出來跟她說清楚,希望她能給他機會。</span></div><div><span >可是…</span></div><div><span ><br /></span></div><div><span >她跟男人在他身前掠過,似看不見他一樣。</span></div><div><span >她沒有望他一眼,便與男人進入了大廈。</span></div><div><span >大閘關上,他看不見她了。</span></div><div><span ><br /></span></div><div><span >他垂著頭,嘆著氣。</span></div><div><span >忽然,牛頭馬面跑了出來,在他身旁左右一挾。</span></div><div><span >「夠鐘了,完成了你的願望,這就跟我走吧。」</span></div><div><span >時針與分針剛好疊在12那個位置。</span></div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; "><br /></div>武明智http://www.blogger.com/profile/16484979782263814429noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1130381481803119.post-35382997734926425712012-02-24T20:04:00.001-08:002012-02-24T20:04:23.134-08:00Flirt<span >甚麼是Flirt﹖按中文翻譯,意指「調情」或「眉來眼去」。即是男女雙方互相用言語「挑逗」對方,帶有「愛」的暗示,或似有所指,令對方感到開心或產生繼續有下文的懸念。這與「有味笑話」或「講咸濕野」有質的分別,後者只是呈一時之快的爛gag,笑完就算,不會有下文。<br /></span> <p><span >男人性格,多少有點情色念頭,就算一本正經的男人,間中都會「口花花」地說一兩句有味笑話,以作閒聊或展現風趣。只是這類男人的正經形象根深柢固,多會換來別人一句:「哈…你都鬼馬喇。」至於那些常滿腦子情色及性幻想的男人,女人對他們的評價多兩極化,一就喜歡,一就討厭,兩者差別在於口才和其侵略性。</span></p> <p><span >女人最怕帶侵略性的男人,所謂侵略性,就是感到被冒犯,輕薄和非禮的直覺,會不其然地與男方保持距離,並會有毛管直豎和打冷震的生理反應,這也許是女人原始生理保護反應吧。就算男人口才了得,讚美說話聽在女士們耳裏,也只是不懷好意,或有所企圖。</span></p> <p><span >相反,口才了得而又懂得尊重女性的男人,「調情」術就如利刃一樣,好容易就攻入女方心坎,令其心花怒放。他們懂得用比較間接的讚美方法,令女士們讚嘆其智慧,雖然這只是男人平日充塞著腦子的性幻想備用資料,都是些呃呃氹氹伎倆,但就照單全收,好感油然而生。 </span></p> <p><span >女:「你做甚麼了﹖眼澄澄望著我。」<br />男:「啊! 因為你太有藝術氣質,太完美了。」</span></p> <p><span >女:「飲檸茶不下糖,不苦嗎﹖」<br />男:「對著你,還要落糖嗎﹖」</span></p> <p><span >男人把麻蓉包剖開兩片,然後對女人說:「可以跟我分甘同味嗎﹖」</span></p> <p><span >******** ******** ******* ******* ******* ******* ******<br />女人也會「調情」,只要不怕因此招惹狂蜂浪蝶的話,殺傷力也非同小可,很多男人可為其死心塌地,不知不覺愛上她。</span></p> <p><span >男:「今天穿得很漂亮啊!」<br />女:「因為想你多望我幾眼嘛。」</span></p> <p><span >男:「剛才吃飯不見你,往那裡去﹖」<br />女:「不見了我,是因為掛念我嗎﹖」</span></p> <p><span >我夠膽說,遇到這情況將令很多男人不知所措,男人 – 其實好易對付。<br /></span></p>武明智http://www.blogger.com/profile/16484979782263814429noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1130381481803119.post-6392211477807574242012-02-15T19:47:00.001-08:002012-02-15T19:49:32.998-08:00如何當個稱職的媒人﹖<div>無論男人女人,當步入三十仍然單身時,眾親友就開始攜手行動,積極地介紹他們認為的「筍盤」給他/她。</div><div>我也曾當過這樣的「媒人」,落力地想撮合一些我認為是「合襯」的朋友。不過,當你想便別人的媒人時,究竟抱著甚麼心態﹖</div><div><br /></div><div>當做媒人「配對」時,常會適度做出一些價值判斷,例如男女背景要類同、有共同嗜好,性格相近等等,使到配對出來的組合,可以有較高的成功機會。成功撮合,可以是一值得引以為榮的事。</div><div><br /></div><div>我想這就是當媒人背後的心態。</div><div><br /></div><div>可是,媒人配對,十之八九都是失敗收場。因為他們多以「撮合成功率」作為他們的成績。媒人很努力地撮合單身親友,但反問被撮合的雙方,其實他們也不大領情,還覺你多事。</div><div><br /></div><div>被撮合的男女雙方,在潛意識已抗拒這種「人為安排」,不屑從這種「介紹」而獲取姻緣;而且,雙方也許會存留這種「三十多歲人仍單身,一定有點問題」的偏見或疑問,因此大家都對這類朋友式的配對玩意有保留。</div><div><br /></div><div>除非男女雙方幸運地在撮合的場景裡,碰到了令其一見鐘情的對方。</div><div>可是,從「媒人配對」而觸發出雙方一見鐘情的,機會又微乎其微。</div><div><br /></div><div>我對「一見鐘情」曾有點研究。發覺能夠激發出旁人對其產生「一見鐘情」者,多少都會散發出可吸引別人的「魅力」- 不是一種只對某一個人產生的,而是一種對眾多人也產生吸引力的一種氣質,簡單說就是有「觀眾緣」,會令人有想多點親近的感覺。因此,可以激發出「一見鐘情」的男人或女人,他們多不用靠媒人協助。</div><div><br /></div><div>至於成功的例子,多是雙方都很在意要趁這個機會交上戀人,因為有良好的動機和意願,媒人安排約會,大家都抱著:多認識一個朋友無壞的心態,為這次「配對約會」行動找到一個合理解釋。見面後真的可以開花結果,當然是最好,不能的話也就當一次交友約會好了。</div><div><br /></div><div>男女能夠成為愛侶,說得老土點,是一種緣份。由媒人從中牽引,令東邊的男認識西邊的女,媒人的工作應到此為止。雙方究竟可不可以再進一步,已是另一回事,更與媒人再無關係。問題是太多媒人不明白這個道理,總想當其幕後黑手,搧起大葵扇來,還要做出完美結局才甘心,結果多是失望。</div>武明智http://www.blogger.com/profile/16484979782263814429noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1130381481803119.post-63866883127475807972012-02-14T17:55:00.000-08:002012-02-14T17:56:02.414-08:00突襲<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif; ">「最近與男友相處得好嗎﹖」</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">「普通喇</span><span lang="EN-US">!</span><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">沒甚麼特別。」</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">「那很好啊</span><span lang="EN-US">…</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">感情穩定。」</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">「才不</span><span lang="EN-US">…</span><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">」</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">「﹖」</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">「平淡得很,見面少了,好像可以沒有他也可以。」</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">「男友沒有找你麼﹖」</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">「也是有的,但通電話似例行公事,他只是在聽我說,我沒有話說便掛線。」</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">「似乎是愛情沒火花了。」</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">她一陣沉默。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">「考慮結婚嗎﹖」</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">「他說仍未是時候。」</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">「那你如何想﹖」</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">「不知道,一直在等吧</span><span lang="EN-US">!</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">」</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">「放心,積極點。」他的手輕拍著她的手背,並順勢搭在她手背上,沒有移開。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">她忽有一陣觸電感覺,心突然急促跳了起來。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">「不如</span><span lang="EN-US">…</span><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">給我一個機會,做我女朋友</span><span lang="EN-US">…</span><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">。」他握著她的手,身向前靠近她。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">她心亂如麻,害怕,不懂如何反應。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p>武明智http://www.blogger.com/profile/16484979782263814429noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1130381481803119.post-84068098082724502052012-02-12T20:29:00.001-08:002012-02-12T20:29:51.435-08:00你男友是這樣麼﹖<div>他帶女朋友回家見父母。</div><div>這是女朋友第一次上他的家。</div><div><br /></div><div>大家吃過飯後,女朋友從手袋裡掏出感冒藥,以為是她病了要服藥,誰知藥丸是給他的,女朋友真照顧周到。</div><div><br /></div><div>藥丸交到他手上,他對女友說:「我要杯水。」</div><div>女友立即起身,斟水去也。</div><div>可是,她立時省起,可以往那裡取杯斟水﹖</div><div>最清楚水杯和水往那裡取的,是誰呢﹖</div><div>這是他的家,不是應該由他自己去取水服藥更恰當嗎﹖</div><div><br /></div><div>他的倚賴行為,很多時是女友造成的。</div><div>也許是因為男女人口失衡,伴侶難求。</div><div>也許「港女」稱謂太負面,為了避免被標籤化,於是表現得極盡溫柔,千依百順地去逢迎男友。</div><div>他知道自己優勢,於是有風駛盡,當女友是「阿四」 - 如他真懂操弄人的話。</div><div>可是我卻認為,他是習慣成自然而矣。</div><div>順藤摸瓜,揪出造成他這模樣的幕後黑手,可能是他的家傭,甚至是母親。</div><div>因為這作風,甚似「少爺仔」,一種飯來便只懂張開口、飲水都要人家斟 – 一切皆因阿媽或家傭服侍慣了,如今只是換成了女朋友。 </div><div><br /></div><div>妒忌﹖</div><div>不!!</div><div>只是看不過眼,哀嘆新一代男孩變了這個模樣。</div><div><br /></div>武明智http://www.blogger.com/profile/16484979782263814429noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1130381481803119.post-46193200448906776522012-02-10T20:18:00.000-08:002012-02-10T20:19:25.312-08:00硬男人回歸<div>回歸,只是我想要找個渠道寫點東西,究竟是開一個新網誌重新做起,還是在舊地盤重新經營,苟延殘喘﹖</div><div><br /></div><div><div>試過重新做起,卻發覺有很多困難,需要花很多時間克服。例如換了身份,變了另一個「博客」,可是題材上,文風總擺脫不了舊模樣,為了刻意求新求變,反而寫得亂七八糟,完全失去了個人風格,那種無力、挫敗的心情,更加令寫的東西變成創白無力的爤文字。 </div><div><br /></div><div>放棄好了!!</div><div><br /></div><div>自從轉工後,從工作裡獲得的滿足感,大過寫文字好多。</div><div>但工作多是理性的判斷,缺少了感性的流露。</div><div>多與不同的人一起工作,互相交流時,發覺自己仍有想說的話可以寫下來,與有緣人分享當中的經驗和趣味。</div><div><br /></div><div>舊地盤是一個頗穩當的選擇,有已建立好了的人緣,無需重新做起。問題是我的熱情還剩多少﹖</div></div><div><br /></div>武明智http://www.blogger.com/profile/16484979782263814429noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1130381481803119.post-62576675348034881902011-09-06T01:23:00.000-07:002011-09-06T01:35:53.861-07:00男士魅力<p>故事1<br />女經理雖已是兩孩之母,但無論遠看近看,仍然青春可人,嗒得杯落。一次放工時她的丈夫來接,發覺她丈夫年紀不輕,少說也比她大上十年。從前已經知道她丈夫是成熟穩重型,只是沒有想到是一個禿頭胖叔叔模樣。後來有機會再跟她閒聊時,她說因為對跟她年齡相約的男孩子看不上眼,嫌沒有事業基礎之餘,也欠缺成熟,所以選了現在的丈夫,因對方符合她的擇偶條件。</p><br /><p>故事2<br />女同事剛大學畢業時,就應徵到這裡工作。猶記得她當時還有一個男友陪著來見工面試,往後加入了公司,放工返工管接管送。但就一次公司的戶外活動,給她認識了公司某「地中海」矮個子高層,結果在短時間裡「撻」著,拋棄了男友,並在半年裡結婚。這位高層丈夫年齡比她大上十三年。只是跟她不太熟,沒有機會談到她的選擇,只是很難不令人想到,男人的高薪厚職,是令這位女孩子下嫁的原因。</p><br /><p>故事3<br />又是一位標緻女孩,放洋後回港工作定居。她在異地時早與不同國籍男友結緣,也不知是不是這個原因,回港後一直未見有「男友」。後來在一次飯局聚會中,她帶來男友出席,赫見這位男友,以為是她的長輩親戚,但即時已知道,這位禿頭矮個子叔叔,竟然就是她的「男友」。大家當時用奇異眼光看之,都不敢多問這位「男友」的身世或關係,感覺得到女孩介紹男友時也背負了很大壓力。<br />後來得知她倆要結婚,他比她大十八年。<br />問她為什麼選擇他,她說欣賞他的才華,我沒有再問下去,因為覺得才華這東西,有點虛幻,實在太抽象了。</p><br /><p>以上三個故事,不知點解,雖然令我心有點戚戚然。一想到她們結為夫妻後行房的情境,就令我妒忌兼羨慕,但也讓人明白,男人年紀稍大,絕不是缺點,只要外表夠穩重、有點事業、有點才華,則不愁吸引不到女孩子啊!!</p>武明智http://www.blogger.com/profile/16484979782263814429noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1130381481803119.post-64982691607177347052011-08-22T02:14:00.000-07:002011-08-22T03:59:42.784-07:00成人博覽會報告<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhbL_jA4NEMcJG-txucWS3yJwITu8A0txa7ryxMpLaLxbut5seGcCt6EwWo1OBHsCfGmC_kvgt2RwwHKYYQZjt_F3B8uQXGAVY2GAqEa78pVrZ_w8kredfTCyDv70ETT-DW88YJU4q5KA/s1600/IMG_3087_%25E8%25AA%25BF%25E6%2595%25B4%25E5%25A4%25A7%25E5%25B0%258F.JPG"><img style="float:right; 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<br /><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif";font-family:Calibri;" >在威尼斯人酒店的金光博覽館,有個亞洲成人博覽,適值要到澳門做點事,橫豎一場來到,過門而不入,只會後悔不已,於是抱著增廣見聞的心態,買票入場好了。</span><p class="MsoNormal">
<br /><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;" >去成人用品展,相比到成人用品商店,心態上顯然輕鬆得多,沒有那麼令人尷尬,尤其沒有店員在你旁邊兜售,說些如:「這個包你條女</span><span lang="EN-US">high</span><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;" >到暈</span><span lang="EN-US">…</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif";font-family:Calibri;" >」這類略帶露骨且惹人厭惡的銷售說話。展覽場的推廣員都表現得正正經經的,可能不欲把這個場弄得低俗色情吧﹖</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;" >
<br /></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;" >事實上,買票入來的有男有女,他們都應該抱著一開眼界的心態,正是平日不常到成人用品店看貸,今日可以大模斯樣的又看又摸,加上還可以拍照做記錄,行得不亦樂乎。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-family:新細明體, serif;" >不要想像這博覽會好像書展、婚紗展等的瑰麗堂皇,相反場地佈置十分簡陋,只似「花市」擺檔。不過大家醉翁之意不在酒,說得白一點,其實是一個銷售場,大量傾銷成人用品,價錢只是成人用品商店的三分一,若果要「入貨」的話,確是一個大好機會。也因為看過這些貨品的標價,原來可以價低至此,即證明平日在成人用品店裡賣的,可知「食水有幾深」。不過也難怪,很多人走入成人用品商店,普遍都有心理壓力,一來怕給售貨員看扁,二來也驚怕別人知悉個人的性興趣,三來怕遭熟人碰見,招來閒話或破壞了良好形象。所以入去成人用品商店,多不會有格價行為,更不會「講價」,因為不知市價,只要合符心意,就付鈔買之。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;" >說回成人用品博覽,有成人用品,如震蛋、假陽具、假陰戶、飛機杯、吹氣人形公仔等自慰、情趣物品外,也有誘人內衣,刺激性慾</span><span lang="EN-US">SM</span><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;" >服裝、毛毛手銬、潤滑油、催情香薰油、及各種味道、紋理的避孕套等,式式俱備,包羅萬有。就連最新</span><span lang="EN-US">3D</span><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;" >肉蒲團也有專櫃賣,只是沒有多少人幫襯呢。此外,間中有一兩個工作人員穿上「性器官」的道具服,在場中走來走去營造氣氛,與人拍照也可搏一笑。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;" >博覽會另一吸引人的節目,就是邀請了日本</span><span lang="EN-US">AV</span><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;" >女星來跟大家合照,和讓「龍友」拍照。對於這種有得睇無得食的玩意,我沒有時間耗在那裡呆,當然沒有見到「</span><span lang="EN-US">AV</span><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;" >女神」,不過肯花時間等候她們的男士必定大有人在,只要肯等,應該可以滿足到龍友「影波影蘿」,近距離接觸</span><span lang="EN-US">AV</span><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;" >女星的慾望。</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;" >這次成人用品博覽,展期由</span><span lang="EN-US">8</span><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;" >月</span><span lang="EN-US">18</span><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;" >日至</span><span lang="EN-US">8 </span><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi- mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;" >月</span><span lang="EN-US">21</span><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latinfont-family:Calibri;" >日,其實展覽已經完畢,想看的話,據聞遲些會在內地舉行,否則就要待明年了。</span></p>武明智http://www.blogger.com/profile/16484979782263814429noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1130381481803119.post-6907440156368250132011-08-19T19:36:00.000-07:002011-08-19T20:45:35.419-07:00吃的聯想<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">(1) 我在吃飯,你在吃我<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">餐廳角落,一對男女並排而坐。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">侍應陸續把菜餚放到枱上,女孩手也提箸挾餸菜吃。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">坐在她身旁的男士,手只顧掃著她的大腿。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">男士對枱面的餸菜興趣不大,看來對女友人的身體感興趣。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">兩人都在「進餐」,只是吃的東西不同。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">正是我在吃飯,你在吃我。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">大家對「吃」的不同演譯。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">(2) 我在吃你,你在吃我<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">地鐵車廂,一對男女並排而坐。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">乘客量一般的多,有不少站立的乘客。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">兩人四目交投,兩副面孔的距離越來越近</span><span lang="EN-US">…</span><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">情不自禁接吻起來。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">旁若無人,兩人都十配合,進入忘我境界。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">太陶醉了,二人都瞇著雙眼,兩條舌頭隱然交纏中。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">正是我在吃你,你在吃我。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">另一種「吃」的演譯方式。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p>武明智http://www.blogger.com/profile/16484979782263814429noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1130381481803119.post-91957936657195963522011-08-18T18:03:00.000-07:002011-08-18T18:04:17.496-07:00公園談心<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <o:officedocumentsettings> <o:allowpng/> </o:OfficeDocumentSettings> </xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:worddocument> <w:view>Normal</w:View> <w:zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:trackmoves/> <w:trackformatting/> <w:donotshowrevisions/> <w:donotprintrevisions/> <w:donotshowmarkup/> <w:donotshowcomments/> <w:donotshowinsertionsanddeletions/> <w:donotshowpropertychanges/> <w:punctuationkerning/> <w:displayhorizontaldrawinggridevery>0</w:DisplayHorizontalDrawingGridEvery> <w:displayverticaldrawinggridevery>2</w:DisplayVerticalDrawingGridEvery> <w:validateagainstschemas/> <w:saveifxmlinvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:ignoremixedcontent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent> <w:alwaysshowplaceholdertext>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText> 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Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">晚上寧靜的公園,多會見到以下景象。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">公園一排排的石櫈上,總有情侶相倚相偎著。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">他們大多旁若無人,毫不避忌地相擁、接吻、甚至撫摸。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">要理解他們的情不自禁,情到濃時,身體內荷爾蒙不受控的催情效果。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">男人最愛在這種景況下進行「搜索」行動。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">一來可以滿足慾望,二來女孩子的防禦力在這時是最低的,容易遭男方突破。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">女孩子少會拒絕對方,尤其在昏暗的環境裡。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif";">
<br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">據心理學研究,男女在昏暗的環境下,容易產生愛情感覺。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">男人要跟初相識女孩開始愛情關係,最好先約她看戲,在黑漆漆的戲院裡,先釋除她的警戒心,記住別向女方做甚麼不規矩動作,繼而帶她去公園閒談,此一手法往往能對促進感情有正面效果。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">帶女孩子去公園談心,是便宜的做法,適合不欲花錢往酒店的男人;但事實上兩者效果相若,只是手高手低的虛榮心作祟。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"></span><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">還要抵受炎夏流汗餵蚊,寒冬吃北風的額外苦頭。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">當然,兩口子相擁依偎已經甜到漏,蓋過了那些苦頭。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal">
<br /><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"></span><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">仍是那一句:男人不要一開始就飛禽大咬,露出狼相。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">用手輕搭女孩子香肩,這已經可以測出對方底線。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">一步一步,慢慢行動,把社交距離拉近至零。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">只要不令對方感到不安,就已經成功了一大半。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">夜晚公園的氛圍,是突破女孩子防衛線的勝地。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p> 武明智http://www.blogger.com/profile/16484979782263814429noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1130381481803119.post-90751252005423417572011-08-17T22:20:00.000-07:002011-08-17T22:21:58.043-07:00二十年後還愛我嗎﹖<p class="MsoNormal"><span>在公眾設施的塗鴉中,看見了這句:「二十年後還愛我嗎﹖」</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span>估計塗鴉者該是年輕人,而且是少女居多。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span>只有還未到廿歲的年輕人,才會有這種疑問,對他們來說,<wbr>人都沒有活了廿年,沒有廿年生活體驗,<wbr>那可以理解廿年時光是甚麼一回事﹖</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span>我對愛情這回事總算有點認識,亦存活在這時空超過廿年,<wbr>所以當我看到這「問句」,還算有點頭緒。如果認為愛一個人,<wbr>今天愛,明天愛,天天愛,二十年後的愛,與今天的愛比較,<wbr>肯定已經沒剩下多少。能夠愛著同一個人,可愛上廿年的,<wbr>我不敢說沒有,但一定認為這人的心智不完全成熟,<wbr>還可能腦筋有問題。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span>如果…愛這人,而與之生活在一起廿年,那已變成了感情。<wbr>仍是愛嗎﹖只是嘴裡說說便了,投其所好,耍耍嘴皮的事兒。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span>如果…愛這人,而不能與之共諧連理的話,廿年後仍有愛﹖<wbr>那仍不是愛,只是憾而矣。遺憾沒有得到這人,廿年後只剩下不忿。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span>如果…愛這人,而不能與之一起,只因對方投了別人懷抱,<wbr>一直耿耿於懷者,那更不是愛,只是恨。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span>愛情如食物一樣,有賞味期,即此日期前食用。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span>想起王家衛「重慶森林」的故事,金城武被女友甩掉,狂掃食用期是</span><span lang="EN-US"><wbr>3</span><span>月</span><span lang="EN-US">31</span><span>日的鳳梨罐頭,待到食用期前通統吃掉。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span>過了賞味期,就算多下防腐劑,最終仍會變質變壞。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><span>廿年後仍愛你</span><span lang="EN-US">(</span><span>我</span><span lang="EN-US">)</span><span>﹖別開玩笑。</span>武明智http://www.blogger.com/profile/16484979782263814429noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1130381481803119.post-22615089344068971932011-08-16T11:00:00.000-07:002011-08-18T18:38:47.414-07:00硬男人的意思<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:worddocument> <w:view>Normal</w:View> <w:zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:trackmoves/> <w:trackformatting/> <w:punctuationkerning/> 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mso-bidi-font-size:11.0pt; font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif"; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-font-kerning:1.0pt;} </style> <![endif]--> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-pagination:widow-orphan"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-bidi-mso-font-kerning: 0ptfont-family:新細明體;font-size:12.0pt;" >「硬漢子」或「鐵漢」聽得多了,就是沒聽過「硬男人」。這博頁標題,究竟葫蘆裏賣乜嘢藥﹖趁這博頁仍沒有多少人留意前,也沒有人留言質問,還是先解釋一下,免得日後遭人踩場時再辯解,就令人以為我在狡辯。<span lang="EN-US"></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-pagination:widow-orphan"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-bidi-mso-font-kerning: 0ptfont-family:新細明體;font-size:12.0pt;" > 男 人有甚麼地方會給人用「硬」字來形容﹖通常都是指男人「那話兒」,或說得文雅一點,就是「陰莖」。而硬者,當指其勃起狀態。據已故香港才子黃霑所著之「不文集」中,對男人「性器官」的考據,廣府話通常有兩個字來描述之,是為「七」和「鳩」也。使用此二字時,又會配以特定形容詞,前者用「笨」<span lang="EN-US">(</span>應勃而沒有勃起<span lang="EN-US">)</span>、後者用「戇」字<span lang="EN-US">(</span>不應勃而勃起者<span lang="EN-US">)</span>,此兩者皆帶貶意,故可見「七」或「鳩」,只要是不適當的反應,或無所用者,則是又笨又戇,徒有其表,實無能用之。<span lang="EN-US"></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-pagination:widow-orphan"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-bidi-mso-font-kerning: 0ptfont-family:新細明體;font-size:12.0pt;" > 由此推之,「硬男人」不應與「硬漢子」或「鐵漢」混為一談,兩者意思各異,實則另有所指。<span lang="EN-US"></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-pagination:widow-orphan"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-bidi-mso-font-kerning:0ptfont-family:新細明體;font-size:12.0pt;" lang="EN-US" > </span><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-bidi- mso-font-kerning:0ptfont-family:新細明體;font-size:12.0pt;color:black;" >硬男人,簡言之,只是滿腦子「笨七」和「戇鳩」事。</span><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-bidi-mso-font-kerning:0ptfont-family:新細明體;font-size:12.0pt;" lang="EN-US" ></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-pagination:widow-orphan"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-bidi-mso-font-kerning:0ptfont-family:新細明體;font-size:12.0pt;" lang="EN-US" > </span><span style="font-family:"新細明體","serif";mso-bidi-mso-font-kerning:0pt;mso-ansi-language:EN-US;mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;mso-bidi-language:AR-SAfont-family:新細明體;font-size:12.0pt;color:black;" >希望你喜歡<span lang="EN-US">!!</span></span></p>武明智http://www.blogger.com/profile/16484979782263814429noreply@blogger.com1